What is grief counseling at Foundations?
Grief counseling in Fort Collins, Loveland and Windsor at Foundations Counseling helps adults, teens and families grieve a parent, partner or child, including sudden or traumatic loss, using CBT, IFS, ACT and trauma focused therapy. The first meeting is a free consultation, and most new clients are seen within 48 hours.
Is my grief normal, or is it prolonged grief disorder?
Grief is a normal reaction to losing someone. MedlinePlus notes the acute phase may last up to 2 months, while milder symptoms can last a year or longer, and feelings like anger, guilt and numbness do not arrive in a set order. Feeling raw six months after your mom died is common, not a sign you are grieving wrong.
Prolonged grief disorder is different. The American Psychiatric Association describes it as intense, persistent grief that interferes with daily life, diagnosed only when the loss was at least a year ago for adults, or 6 months for children and teens. You do not need a diagnosis to get help. If grief keeps you from working, sleeping, eating or connecting with people, counseling is worth starting now.
How does counseling help after a sudden or traumatic death?
A death by accident, suicide, overdose or violence can leave shock, intrusive images and unanswered questions on top of the grief. Mayo Clinic lists an unexpected or violent death as a risk factor for complicated grief. Your counselor paces the work so you are not flooded, uses trauma focused skills to calm your body when memories hit, and helps you make room for the relationship, not only the way it ended.
How does therapy help someone who lost a child?
Losing a child, at any age, is one of the hardest losses a person can carry, and Mayo Clinic names the death of a child as another risk factor for complicated grief. Counseling gives each parent space to grieve in their own way, helps partners who grieve differently stay connected, and supports surviving brothers and sisters. For younger children, counselors may use play or art therapy so they can express what they cannot yet put into words.
How can I help an elderly parent get grief counseling?
When a parent loses a spouse of many years, grief often arrives with loneliness, new daily tasks and questions about the future. You can call or book a free consultation for your parent, with their permission, and you may join the first few minutes if that helps them feel comfortable. Sessions are available in person or through online counseling for parents who no longer drive. Your parent's counseling stays their own, and you can ask about sessions for yourself too.
How soon after a loss should I start grief counseling?
There is no wrong time. Some people come in the week of a death to get through the funeral and the first days; others come years later when unprocessed grief shows up as anger, numbness or depression. Early on, counseling focuses on sleep, basic routines and support. Later, it turns toward meaning, memory and rebuilding a life that still honors the person you lost.
What do the first sessions look like?
You share what happened and who you lost, at your own pace. Your counselor asks about sleep, support, and any thoughts of not wanting to live, because that is part of good grief care. Together you set two or three goals, such as getting through a hard anniversary or talking about your person without falling apart. Sessions usually last 50 minutes.
Who will I work with?
Many Foundations counselors list grief and loss as a specialty. You can meet them in the team section on this page, or tell us what you need when you reach out and we will match you with a counselor who fits. Your first meeting with that counselor is a free consultation. If the first match does not feel right, our Counselor Match Guarantee means we will find another counselor who is.
When is grief an emergency?
Grief counseling is not crisis care. If you or someone you love is thinking about suicide, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, available 24/7. If anyone is in immediate danger, call 911. Some grief also overlaps with depression; if that is you, see our depression counseling page, and talk with a physician about any medical questions.
Ready to talk?
For a place to start at home, read coping with grief and loss. Questions about cost? See private pay vs insurance therapy. Counselors see clients in Fort Collins (Central), Fort Collins (Southeast), Loveland and Windsor. When you are ready, book a free consultation or call 970.227.2770.
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Learn MoreHOW WE HELP WITH GRIEF
Your counselor learns about the person you lost, how the death happened, and what daily life looks like now. Methods our grief counselors use include:
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): loosens the guilt and "what if" loops that keep grief stuck.
- Internal Family Systems (IFS): helps the parts of you that are angry, numb or still searching feel heard.
- Trauma focused therapy: calms the shock and intrusive memories after a sudden or violent death.
Do You Feel...
What brings people to counseling rarely arrives as one clear moment. More often it builds quietly: a feeling that lingers, a pattern that keeps repeating, a sense that something is off. If any of these sound familiar, reaching out to Foundations is a simple first step.
Persistent Sadness or Depression
If you often feel down, hopeless, or melancholic, it could be a sign of depression. Counseling can help you identify the root of these feelings and provide strategies to manage them.
Social Withdrawal
Avoiding friends, family, or activities you once loved? Counseling can help you uncover the reasons behind this behavior and reconnect with your passions.
Withdrawal from Social Activities
Losing interest in socializing or activities once enjoyed could indicate underlying issues. Online therapy provides a confidential setting to address these concerns.
Changes in Sleep or Appetite
Noticeable changes in sleeping patterns or appetite might signal mental health struggles, whether an increase or decrease. Counselors can help explore the root causes and offer guidance.
Feelings of Worthlessness or Guilt
Harboring negative thoughts about oneself or feeling excessive guilt can be debilitating. Therapy offers a path to challenge and change these negative self-perceptions.
Unexplained Physical Symptoms
Experiencing physical symptoms like headaches or stomach aches without a clear medical cause could be stress-related. Counseling can help identify stressors and reduce psychosomatic symptoms.
Difficulty Accepting the Loss
Struggling to come to terms with the reality of a loss is common. If someone finds themselves in denial or unable to accept that the loss has occurred, grief counseling can provide support in processing these feelings.
Intense Emotional Pain or Anguish
Experiencing acute emotional pain, such as feelings of emptiness, despair, or deep loneliness, is a strong indicator that someone might benefit from professional support to navigate these intense emotions.
Intrusive Thoughts or Memories
Being plagued by constant thoughts or memories of the deceased, to the point where it hampers daily functioning, suggests that grief and loss counseling could be beneficial.
Answers to Common Questions
Will I ever stop feeling this sad?
Do I have to talk about my loved one in counseling?
Are grief support groups better than one on one counseling?
What are the costs associated with counseling or therapy sessions at Foundations?
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What if I need to reschedule my counseling session?
Are you available in the evenings or on weekends?
What does a grief therapist do that talking to friends does not?
What is the best approach for years of unprocessed grief?
Where can I find grief counseling in Fort Collins after losing a parent?
Is it normal to feel guilty or angry after a loss?
Is grief counseling only for a death?
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