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Couples Counseling in Fort Collins, Loveland and Windsor

Break the cycle and feel close again

Couples counseling in Fort Collins, Loveland and Windsor at Foundations Counseling helps married, engaged and dating partners stop repeating the same fight, rebuild trust and feel close again, using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and practical communication skills. It is private pay, about $200 per session, with a free consultation and a first appointment usually within 48 hours.

What is couples counseling at Foundations?

Couples counseling in Fort Collins, Loveland and Windsor at Foundations Counseling helps married, engaged and dating partners stop repeating the same fight, rebuild trust and feel close again, using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and practical communication skills. It is private pay, about $200 per session, with a free consultation and a first appointment usually within 48 hours.

This page covers couples counseling for any committed relationship. If you are married and want a marriage specific focus, see marriage counseling. If an affair is the reason you are reaching out, affair recovery therapy is built for that.

What happens in the first session?

It starts when you reach out and share what brings you in. We match you with a counselor who fits both of you, and your first meeting with that counselor is a free consultation. In the first session, your counselor learns your relationship history, hears each partner's view of the problem, and helps you agree on two or three shared goals. Sessions usually last 50 minutes, and longer sessions are available.

What approaches do Foundations counselors use with couples?

Who will we work with, and where?

Many Foundations counselors list couples counseling as a specialty. You can meet them in the team section on this page, or tell us what you need when you reach out and we will match you with a counselor who fits both of you. Your first meeting with that counselor is a free consultation. If the first match does not feel right, our Counselor Match Guarantee means we will find another counselor who is.

Sessions are in person at our offices in Fort Collins (Central), Fort Collins (Southeast), Loveland and Windsor, or through online counseling anywhere in Colorado.

When is couples counseling not the right place to start?

Couples counseling is not recommended when there is abuse, intimidation, or fear in the relationship. The National Domestic Violence Hotline does not encourage anyone in an abusive relationship to seek counseling with their partner. Call 1.800.799.7233 for confidential support. If either of you is thinking about suicide, call or text 988, the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, available 24/7.

Ready to talk?

For a place to start at home, read how to talk about relationship problems with your partner. Questions about cost? See private pay vs insurance therapy. When you are ready, book a free consultation or call 970.227.2770.

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Couples counseling only works when both partners trust the counselor. If your first match is not the right fit, we will find another Foundations counselor who is, with a new free consultation. How the Counselor Match Guarantee works.

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HOW WE WORK WITH COUPLES

Your counselor will learn your relationship history, map the pattern you keep getting stuck in, and set shared goals with both of you. Methods our couples counselors use include:

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Meet the Couples Counseling Team

19 counselors Fort Collins 8 Loveland 9 Windsor 2

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Kelsey

Edwards M.S.W., SWC Get to Know Me

Chris

Berger M.A., LPC, NC Get to Know Me

Jamie

Lofquist M.S.W., LCSW Get to Know Me

Mariah

Milne M.S.W., LCSW Get to Know Me

Cierra

Denton M.S., LPCC Get to Know Me

Viki

Pippin BA Get to Know Me

Karen

Ragland M.A., NCC, LPCC, CCTP Get to Know Me

Marie

Zeledon M.A., LPCC Get to Know Me

Gayla

Joseph B.S. Get to Know Me

Ryan

Battaglia M.S., LPCC Get to Know Me

Aubri

Sherman B.A., M.A., Ed.D., CMPC Get to Know Me

Sean

Lawlor M.A., M.F.A., LPCC Get to Know Me

Erik

Peaslee B.S. Get to Know Me

Katie

Tiffany M.S.W., SWC Get to Know Me

Kelly Vander

Woude B.A., M.Div. Get to Know Me

Natalie

Corbett M.S.W., LSW, ADDC Get to Know Me

Mike

Henderson M.A.C.P., ADDC, LPCC Get to Know Me

Sam

Sorensen M.A., LPCC Get to Know Me

Barb

O'Dwyer M.S., M.S., LPCC Get to Know Me

Do You Feel...

What brings people to counseling rarely arrives as one clear moment. More often it builds quietly: a feeling that lingers, a pattern that keeps repeating, a sense that something is off. If any of these sound familiar, reaching out to Foundations is a simple first step.

Communication Breakdowns

Do conversations often lead to misunderstandings or conflict? Couples counseling can help you develop healthier ways to express your needs and truly hear each other.

Stuck in the Same Fights

If disagreements feel endless and solutions seem out of reach, couples counseling can help uncover the root causes and create lasting resolutions.

Uncertain About the Future

Even casually mentioning a breakup can signal deeper concerns. Therapy offers a space to explore your relationship and decide the best path forward.

Diminished Intimacy

A lack of emotional or physical closeness can leave you feeling disconnected. Couples counseling helps you rebuild intimacy and strengthen your bond.

Contempt and Resentment

When frustration turns into resentment, it can erode your connection. Counseling provides tools to heal past wounds and rebuild a foundation of mutual respect.

Codependent

When one or both partners feel they cannot function independently, it creates an unhealthy dynamic that stifles personal growth.

Unable to Trust

Betrayal, dishonesty, and secrecy can severely damage a relationship. Counseling offers a path to process these wounds and rebuild trust.

Different Values or Goals

Conflicts over the future, whether about careers, children, or lifestyles, can create tension. Counseling helps you align expectations and navigate big decisions together.

Financial Stress

Money can be a major source of conflict in relationships. Therapy provides a neutral space to discuss finances, set goals, and create a plan that works for both of you.

Betrayed by Infidelity

Healing after an affair is difficult but possible. Counseling provides a supportive space to process emotions, rebuild trust, and decide how to move forward.

Unsure About Commitments

Thinking about moving in together, getting engaged, or taking another big step? Therapy helps you explore expectations, communication styles, and long-term compatibility.

External Pressures

Tension from in-laws, friendships, or outside influences can put strain on your relationship. Couples therapy helps you establish healthy boundaries and protect your connection.

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Answers to Common Questions

Will our counselor take sides?

A skilled counselor is trained to remain neutral, providing a balanced perspective and support to both partners. Their role is to facilitate healing and understanding, not to take sides.

What issues can Couples Therapy help with?

Couples Therapy can address a wide range of issues including, but not limited to, communication problems, sexual difficulties, conflicts about child rearing or blended families, infidelity, jealousy, and financial issues.

Is Couples Therapy confidential?

Yes. Like all forms of therapy, Couples Therapy is confidential. Information discussed in sessions will not be disclosed without the consent of both partners, except in situations where there is a risk of harm or as required by law.

What are the costs associated with counseling or therapy sessions at Foundations?

At Foundations, each counseling or therapy session is $200. Your first consultation is always free, and you are able to meet with as many counselors as you need until you find the perfect match.

Does Foundations accept Insurance?

Foundations will provide any necessary documentation for you to submit for reimbursement with your insurance company. This approach ensures greater privacy, avoids mandatory diagnoses, offers more therapist choices, and promotes tailored session lengths, facilitating a personalized therapeutic experience without external constraints or documentation shared with insurance companies.

What if I need to reschedule my counseling session?

There is no charge for any session cancelled at least 48 hours prior to the scheduled appointment time.

Are you available in the evenings or on weekends?

Foundations offers flexible early morning, daytime, evening, and Saturday appointments. Please contact us at 970-227-2770 to arrange a session that fits your schedule.

How can we prepare for our first session?

Being open and honest about your feelings, expectations, and the issues you hope to address in therapy is a good start. Reflecting on your relationship's strengths and challenges can also help you articulate your goals for therapy.

Can Couples Therapy actually save a relationship?

While Couples Therapy can be highly effective in improving relationship dynamics, enhancing communication, and resolving conflicts, the success largely depends on the couple's commitment to the process and willingness to change. It's not a guaranteed solution, but many couples find it transformative.

How often should we attend Couples Therapy sessions?

Frequency can vary based on the therapist's recommendation and the couple's needs. Weekly sessions are common, especially at the beginning. As progress is made, sessions may become less frequent.

How long does each Counseling session last?

Foundations offers counseling sessions lasting 50 minutes, with an option for double sessions of 90 minutes but this can vary based on the therapist's approach and the client's needs.

Will couples counseling help if we keep having the same fight?

Often, yes. A repeating fight is usually a pattern, not a personality problem. In couples counseling in Fort Collins, Loveland and Windsor, a Foundations counselor helps you both see the cycle, what each of you feels underneath it, and how to interrupt it. Approaches like Emotionally Focused Therapy are designed for exactly this. Starting before resentment builds usually makes the work easier.

Can one partner go to therapy alone if the other refuses?

Yes. You can start with individual counseling at Foundations to understand your part of the pattern and learn new ways to respond. When one partner changes how they show up, the relationship often shifts too, and many reluctant partners join later. Your counselor can also help you invite your partner in a way that feels low pressure.

How is Emotionally Focused Therapy different from regular couples counseling?

Regular couples counseling often teaches communication skills. Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) goes underneath the argument to the attachment needs driving it, such as feeling unimportant or shut out, and helps partners respond to those needs. At Foundations, EFT is one of the approaches our couples counselors use, often alongside practical communication skills.

What is the Gottman Method, and does it help after cheating?

The Gottman Institute describes the Gottman Method as couples therapy that starts with a thorough check up of the relationship and uses research based interventions. Its affair recovery model moves through atonement, attunement and attachment. If infidelity is why you are reaching out, see our affair recovery therapy page, and ask when you reach out about each counselor's specific training, so we can match you well.

What is the difference between a marriage counselor and a regular therapist?

The title matters less than the training and focus. At Foundations, couples and marriage counseling is provided by licensed counselors whose bios list couples work and methods such as Emotionally Focused Therapy. Couples work treats the relationship as the client, so your counselor stays neutral and focuses on the pattern between you, not on one partner.

Can therapy help couples who lost the spark after kids?

Yes. Many couples in Fort Collins and Loveland come in when parenting has crowded out connection. Counseling helps you name what changed, rebuild small daily moments of closeness, and talk about intimacy without blame. Foundations also offers dedicated intimacy counseling when physical or emotional closeness is the main concern.

How do we know if we need couples counseling?

Most couples come in because something keeps repeating: the same fight that ends the same way, talking past each other, a spark that faded after kids or a move, shaky trust, or a big decision you keep getting stuck on. You do not need to be in crisis. Couples who start earlier usually have more goodwill to work with, and a free consultation can help you decide.

Colorado Licensed Counselors

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Not Always

Appointment Scheduling Within 48 Hours

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Counselor Match Concierge

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Expert In-house Counselor Training

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All Counselors Are Employees

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In-person Or Online

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Local Company & Ownership

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Community Involvement

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Pay Per Session

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We understand that the journey to emotional well-being begins with connecting you to the right counselor. That's why we proudly offer our unique Counselor Match Guarantee. We don't just pair you with any counselor; we meticulously match you with someone who aligns with your specific needs, preferences, and goals for healing and growth. If the initial pairing needs to be corrected, we encourage you to explore our diverse and experienced team until you find the perfect fit.

Your comfort and progress are paramount, so we ensure you always have a supportive and confidential environment to pursue your journey of self-discovery and healing. Choose us as your trusted partner in this transformative experience—because your well-being deserves the utmost care.

Begin your journey today and take the first step towards a brighter, more fulfilling tomorrow. Let us guide you to emotional wellness with our dedicated and compassionate counseling services.

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