What is infertility counseling at Foundations?
Infertility counseling in Fort Collins, Loveland and Windsor at Foundations Counseling supports individuals and couples through trying to conceive, fertility treatment, pregnancy loss and hard family building decisions, with room for grief, stress and strain on the relationship. It is private pay, about $200 per session, with a free consultation and a first appointment usually within 48 hours.
Why does infertility hit so hard emotionally?
Infertility is common, and it is still lonely. The CDC reports that about 1 in 5 married women aged 15 to 49 with no prior births are unable to get pregnant after a year of trying. Each month can become a cycle of hope, waiting and disappointment, often while friends announce pregnancies and family members ask when you are having kids. The American Society for Reproductive Medicine notes that the long term inability to conceive a child can evoke significant feelings of loss, along with anxiety, depression and strained relationships. None of that means you are coping badly. It means you are carrying something heavy.
What does infertility counseling actually help with?
Counseling is a place to say the things that feel hard to say anywhere else: jealousy, anger at your body, guilt, or fear that this will never happen. Sessions can help you
- manage the stress and anxiety of tests, procedures, waiting periods and results
- grieve losses, including miscarriage, failed cycles and the family you pictured
- handle questions from family, friends and coworkers in a way that protects you
- make treatment decisions, including when to pause, change course or stop
Counselors work with your emotional life, not your medical plan, so you can bring whatever is on your mind without worrying about what your clinic will think.
How can counseling help us as a couple?
Partners rarely experience infertility the same way. One may want to talk constantly and the other may go quiet. You may disagree about how much treatment to try, how much money to spend, or whether to consider donor options, adoption or a life without children. Counseling helps you hear each other and make decisions as a team. If the strain has spread into the rest of your relationship, our couples counseling page explains that work.
When is it a good time to start?
Any time. Some people come in before their first appointment with a fertility clinic, some in the middle of treatment, and some after they have stopped trying. ASRM suggests that talking with a mental health professional can help when you are at a treatment crossroad or when you and your partner see the next step differently. You do not need to wait until you feel at your breaking point.
What about after a pregnancy, adoption or loss?
Feelings do not always settle once a pregnancy finally happens. Anxiety during a pregnancy after loss is common, and some people find low mood or worry after the baby arrives. If that sounds familiar, see postpartum depression treatment. If grief from a loss is the main thing you are carrying, grief therapy may help.
Who will I work with?
Many Foundations counselors list fertility issues as a specialty. You can meet them in the team section on this page, or tell us a little about where you are in the process when you reach out and we will match you with a counselor who fits. Your first meeting with that counselor is a free consultation. Individuals and couples are both welcome. If the match does not feel right, our Counselor Match Guarantee means we will find another counselor who is.
Sessions are in person at our offices in Fort Collins (Central), Fort Collins (Southeast), Loveland and Windsor, or through online counseling anywhere in Colorado.
What does infertility counseling at Foundations not cover?
Foundations offers outpatient talk therapy. Counselors do not give medical advice about fertility treatment or medication, and they do not provide the screening or evaluations some clinics require for donor or gestational carrier arrangements; ask your fertility clinic who handles those. Foundations offers one on one and couples counseling; if you want peer connection, RESOLVE lists community support groups separately. If you are thinking about suicide or feel you cannot stay safe, call or text 988, the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, available 24/7. If you are in immediate danger, call 911.
Ready to talk?
For a place to start at home, read battling the stigma of infertility. When you are ready, book a free consultation or call 970.227.2770.
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Learn MoreHOW WE WORK WITH INFERTILITY
Your counselor will learn where you are in the process and what has been hardest, then work with you, and your partner if you like, at your pace.
- Coping skills for testing, procedures, waiting and results.
- Room to grieve losses, from failed cycles to miscarriage, with grief counseling when needed.
- Decision and communication support for couples who see the next step differently.
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Do You Feel...
What brings people to counseling rarely arrives as one clear moment. More often it builds quietly: a feeling that lingers, a pattern that keeps repeating, a sense that something is off. If any of these sound familiar, reaching out to Foundations is a simple first step.
The Monthly Cycle of Hope
Each month brings hope, waiting and then disappointment. Riding that cycle again and again can leave you exhausted and wary of hoping at all.
Grieving a Loss Others Miss
A miscarriage, a failed cycle or the family you pictured is a real loss. It can feel lonely when the people around you do not quite see it.
Hard Feelings at Announcements
Does a friend's pregnancy news or a baby shower invitation bring a wave of sadness or jealousy? Those feelings are normal, and they do not make you a bad friend.
Tension With Your Partner
One of you wants to talk about it constantly, the other goes quiet. Disagreements about treatment, money or next steps can leave you feeling far apart.
Stress of Tests and Waiting
Appointments, procedures and long waits for results take over your calendar and your thoughts. It can be hard to focus on work or anything else.
Angry at Your Body
You may feel betrayed by your body, or blame yourself for timing, choices or something you cannot name. That self blame adds weight to an already heavy road.
Tired of the Questions
When family, friends or coworkers ask when you are having kids, you are not sure what to say. Every question can sting, even when it is meant kindly.
Facing Hard Decisions
Should you keep going, take a break, change course or stop? Counseling can help you sort through your values and hopes so the choice feels like yours.
Worry Even After Good News
A positive test or a growing pregnancy can bring fear instead of relief. After so much loss, it can be hard to trust that things will be okay.
Answers to Common Questions
Can I come to infertility counseling without my partner?
Is it normal to feel jealous when friends get pregnant?
Can counseling help me decide when to stop fertility treatment?
What are the costs associated with counseling or therapy sessions at Foundations?
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What if I need to reschedule my counseling session?
Are you available in the evenings or on weekends?
Do you help with secondary infertility?
Can counseling help with fear during a pregnancy after infertility or loss?
Can counseling help us decide about donor eggs, sperm or a gestational carrier?
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